Time to enjoy the music

Balancing the head and heart

Link love/suggested reading:
Personal Growth – Moving from head to heart
Integrative Thinking Using the Head and the Heart
Feeling vs. Thinking: The Head and Heart in Organisations

A year without buying anything

My friend Sophie spent 2009 not spending anything at all on clothes. As someone who has an imploding wardrobe and accessory collection, I was impressed by this feat and wanted to find our more. I put four questions to her…

Why did you decide to take a no-purchase stance in 2009?

I spent four months travelling, living out of a suitcase and when I returned to Melbourne I was overwhelmed by the amount of clothes in my wardrobe, and how many items I had not worn for years. I was confident I had enough clothes to last a year without a purchase so I made the New Year resolution.

Did you find it difficult to survive without things you needed or wanted?

It was probably one of the hardest things I have ever done. Need and want are two very separate issues. I needed little as I had so much however I wanted, and I wanted even more because I couldn’t have. The year without buying did further highlight this difference and I now buy more of what I need and less of what I want. However it is very satisfying when the two overlap.

Do you think it is sustainable?

I am certain some people could sustain it, however for me a year was enough. Living in the shopping capital of the Southern Hemisphere [Melbourne] doesn’t help.

Would you recommend others to do a year without purchasing anything?

I would encourage people to do it if they were aware of the consequences and were prepared for the ups and downs.

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So, even though we’re getting well into 2010 already, I would like to take a similar stance to Sophie as a resolution for this year. Having ‘stuff’ around you – especially too much – can really weigh you down. I would like to liberate myself by having only the items that I need to exist around me. I tend to hoard items for sentimental reasons, which is fine, but when too much is entering the system, a lack of mental and physical space really does become an issue…

Things I love

Hands

Old farmhouses

Glasses

The smell of Stargazer lilies

Lying in bed

Thanks to Flickr users _natural_, davydubbit, ang921, peter_ahern78 and 28973110@N05 for the imagery.

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